There is a reason why many men believe that asking for more sex from your partner is a mission impossible. An uncomfortable position, for sure, asking for more sex should not be a fear, but rather a way of communicating.
If you were wondering if there was a way to ask for more from your partner without offending them, let us tell you now- there is.
In fact, there are 4 key aspects you need to focus when doing so. Let’s get started.
1. Refrain from the Blame Game
Trust me when I say, shifting the blame onto your partner is not wise, especially when making love is in question. Therefore, when you do ask, let go of any prejudices and accusations.
This way, instead of cornering your partner and cooling things off even further, try a softer approach. You might be surprised to learn how far a simple ‘I feel like we need to experiment more in bed’ can get you.
2. Libido Issues
A larger portion of men’s sexual frustration comes from the fact that their partner’s libido is lower than theirs. If happening longer, the frustration will become a disinterest and soon, you can kiss good (or any!) sex goodbye.
To prevent this, be ready for an open communication to learn what your partner needs, what she wants and what bothers her. The libido in women also requires a bit more work than in men, so make sure you also partake in its happening.
3. Communication = More Sex!
I cannot stress this enough, but if you want to ask for more sex from your partner, you’ll have to speak up. By speaking up, we mean having a nice, long conversation with your partner, in order to determine the reasons for the less frequent sex.
Not the easiest of talks to have, I know, but if you care to get your sex life up and running, you’ll have to cross this bridge to get there.
4. Real Effort = More Sex!
It would be delusional to think that your partner is okay with not having regular sex. Usually, with women, there is a reason for it. Sometimes, that reason can be not putting in enough effort into the sexual aspect of your relationship.
To make amends, begin making your everyday life a little sexier, introducing spontaneity, raunchiness and hopefully, a whole lot more bedroom action in return!
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